Swinger dating – when monogamy gets boring
Hello all you naughty guys out there – Emily’s back! Today, the blog is about a very special form of dating, namely swinger dating.
Swinger dating – what is it now?
Swinger dating is, in short, dating where you go out with other swinger couples and have sex with each other across the established couples.
Many people associate swinger dating with swinging in a swinger club - and this is where the phenomenon most often takes place.
For many years, swinger clubs have been visited by people in relationships whenever they have wanted to live out their erotic fantasies. After living together for many years the spark may be long gone. But at the same time, they may not be able to go their separate ways for various reasons.
There may be some prestige or reputation to consider which makes it important for the couple to maintain a neat facade. Or maybe they prefer to stick together in their marriage for the sake of the children.
It may also be that they actually have a well-functioning friendship and relationship in various other regards and wish to keep this, but that the sex life just does not work for them. Or they simply practice swinger dating or go to a swinger club to live out specific fantasies.
Many men get incredibly turned on by seeing their wives being screwed by other men. This phenomenon is called cuckolding - and you may not feel like playing that game at home in the bedroom.
Then there are the couples who want to participate in a triangle, a square, or one of the many other polygons that exist in the erotic world. And finally, there are those who just want to try something other than the usual old Wednesday screw missionary style.
Swing outside clubs with swinger dating
Unfortunately, singles are not always allowed in the swinger clubs. It is something to do with discretion and the right man to woman ratio which must be maintained. Therefore, if you want to try swinger dating and you are single, it may not be in the clubs you should seek out your new passion.
Like me and many others, you can choose to visit a sex chat instead. Here, you will quickly be able to find a sweet partner who has the same agenda – or maybe a couple who would like to include you in their erotic adventures.
It is not uncommon for established couples, even the younger ones, to seek out a housemate through a sex chat. I myself once worked as a "unicorn" with a middle-aged couple who were in search of a little inspiration. A unicorn is a woman who dates a couple and has sex with both of them - in my case usually with a generous payment and delicious "couple dinners" as a bonus.
This type of swinger dating is relevant for female singles who are not looking for a steady relationship, neither to one side or the other. It is very important that you do not fall in love. You are, and always will be, just the third wheel.
Swinger dating in Denmark – an area in development
It has become much easier to find both men and women – and couples – who are involved in naughty swinger sex. Freedom has really taken hold, and although some discretion is still required, swinger dating is "on the up and up".
From my time in the escort industry, I have known several girls who have dated couples for long periods, and enjoyed the good company like I did myself.
Swinger dating can take place at home in the couple's private home, in hotels, or even outdoors. The latter, however, is rather rarely seen. But common to all the women, men and couples who practice swinger dating is that they want to go beyond the usual roll in the hay and take their erotic manifestations to new heights. And then it is the duty of an escort girl to help them achieve their goals.
How do we get started with swinger dating?
Maybe you have a hard time imagining how swinger dating can take place. It is also not always easy if you really like your partner and then have to imagine him or her having horny sex with a stranger.
But here, swinger dating has the great advantage over swinger sex in a club that you and your loved ones actually have the opportunity to get to know the other couple – or the man or woman you want to date - really well beforehand. And you can live out the relationship under private circumstances if that is what you prefer.
It is of course important that you are both willing to participate in swinger dating, and that you have an agreement that you can each say no if it crosses a border. Of course, it's meant to be fun for both of you. And it is no use if one of you has absolutely amazing sex if it means that the relationship breaks down because the other one gets jealous or does not have any fun at all.
Use a sex chat for swinger dating
You can always use a so-called sex chat if you want to meet partners for swinger dating. In addition to horny singles who do not bother to waste their time on regular dating, you can find lots of couples who are looking for a male housemate, a unicorn, or maybe a couple for swinger dating almost anywhere in the country on a sex chat.
You will be amazed to find out how many seemingly ordinary couples are interested in swinger dating. And you will surely be able to find someone who matches your preferences and makes your wishes some true.
Different types of sex chat for different types of sex dating
Whether you and your partner are into hard or gentle BDSM (Bondage, Dominance, Sadism and Masochism), whether you are more vanilla in your preferences, or whether you are specifically looking for a young and pretty sugarbabe for sex, there are really many options within sexchat.
If you have a preference for no bull shit sex dating, Adult Sex Dating is just your ballpark. And on Sugargirl Dating you can find the most beautiful and picky young ladies who would probably make perfect unicorns!
I hope for you and your partner that you get the best out of your swinger dating – see you next week!
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